#14: lesson learned

I think that one of the biggest reason why relationships do not work out in the long run is because at one point, one side (or both) stops trying. Before one claims another person as their significant other, they would do anything to make that person happy. They would chase, they would flirt, they would be charming. They would send daily morning and goodnight texts every time you wake up or go to sleep. They would write corny messages and pick up lines just to make sure that there is a smile upon your face. But once they claim you as theirs, all of those things eventually stop. The 5 page texts slowly turn into 1. The constant calls turn into not calling at all. And the lovely endearments turn into daily arguments. In order for a relationship to work, don’t ever stop chasing. Just because the person you want is now consider “yours”, it does not mean they deserve anything less than the time when you’re trying to win them over. source: link
COMMUNICATE: do it often. do it everyday.

kejarlah dia tanpa kamu pernah merasakan sekelumit rasa putus asa, putus harap, putus nyawa. pendek kata tanpa rasa lelah. eh, method ini bagus untuk pasangan yang sudah halal. yang belum sah tu, jangan over ya.
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5 comments :

Nursaila Norman said...

perenggan terakhir tu bgs sgt :)) jgn pernah mengalah bkn utk hubgn sesama manusia je..utk sume perkara jgk kan :))

Liyaa Mf said...

Betul! Sebenarnya kan, bergantung pada keinginan dan usaha both pihak tu sendiri samaada still nak jaga relationship tu ke tak. Kalau dah memang taknak, memang diam bisu camtu je la. Tup2 rupanya dah dpt pengganti. Hehe. Bukan senang nak kekalkan relationship ni. Yang penting tanya hati. Kita nak, or taknak :D

Rapunzeel Cikilolo said...

huhuhu.

ini nama cinta abadi kan?

Jna marcello said...

btul Lyaaaa Na sokong stamnt Lyaa... tepuk dada tanye selera =D

Cik Yanie (",) said...

noted sis! =)